tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257755120831435671.post6971029455958153490..comments2012-04-14T09:17:03.693-05:00Comments on At Thirty-One.: "I'm sorry to have to tell you this..."Vanessahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14665521327189288510noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257755120831435671.post-62688178031432166252012-03-08T10:06:17.795-06:002012-03-08T10:06:17.795-06:00Hey Val. You know what, I DO feel that who I am a...Hey Val. You know what, I DO feel that who I am at my best far outweighs who I am at my worst. I know who I am. Not to excuse poor behaviour, but I've learned that in order to work on the things I want to change, I also have to learn to forgive myself. I can't change what has been done, but I can learn from it and move on.<br /><br />Thanks for reading, Val. Hope all is well with you.Vanessahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14665521327189288510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257755120831435671.post-12849282295357801812012-03-02T18:16:46.742-06:002012-03-02T18:16:46.742-06:00Hi Vanessa, I don't know if this helps coming ...Hi Vanessa, I don't know if this helps coming from me, since I am not in your immediate circle, but perhaps who you are at your best far outweighs who you are at your worst...I mean...everyone experiences some sort of emotional state that they don't know how to deal with...and learning how to deal with them "properly" sometimes takes some time; some trial and error....at least you recognize something you can work on, instead of going on without being aware...<br /><br />Anyway...thank you for posting...it is very unselfish of you to share how you are feeling.<br /><br />All the best to you...I'll stay tuned!<br /><br />- Valvbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17504315487267208331noreply@blogger.com